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May 03, 2019

Are Your Secrets And Hurt Spoiling Your Prayers?

“And when you stand praying, forgive, if you have anything against any: that your Father also who is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses."(Mark 11:25)


“And he answered and said to those that stood before him, saying, 'Take away the filthy garments from him.' And to him he said, 'Behold, I have caused your iniquity to be removed from you, and I will clothe you with change of clothing.'" (Zech. 3:4)


“If I regard iniquity in my heart, the Lord will not hear me"(Psalms 66:18)


God can change your husband emotions and feelings for you overnight and affect him in a way he will obey. God can also disperse those misleading him or raise irreconcilable disagreements among them.

Hi Precious Daughter of God,

I greet you in the Name of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ!   

I have two serious issues to discuss today. They concern you, my friend, not your husband...not the devil. God will give you understanding and courage to rearrange yourself for quicker progress to win back your husband and marriage.


Everything you do not know yet is a secret. Once you know it, and apply it, it becomes wisdom. Wisdom is equal to success. Some winning wisdom is coming for you today.


Ok, my mandate is to guide you in prayers for the change of your cheating husband and for the restoration of your marriage. I tell you, it is working in many homes. Your own change may just be next breath away.


Praying is a good habit but praying right is preferred because it is satisfying. It draws your desires to you by the power of God. That's what you want from praying, isn't?


You may not be able to reach your husband or to convince him to be faithful and love you again. God can. That is difference between humans and God. God can change your husband emotions and feelings for you overnight and affect him in a way he will obey. God can also disperse those misleading him or raise irreconcilable disagreements among them.


Praying right is a process of preparing the heart and praying the word of God for you. We have the approved prayers (and the BBI in its season) which I guide you to pray.


Also, I travail vigorously in prayers for each one of you on my list individually. When I approve the prayers, I communicate them and we pray together until we review or we win.


So, what’s your part to help us do this prayer process right?


You are to give me honest, complete information when I ask or as it comes to your mind. It is no good giving me false, or half info, and wait for me to get the revelation of what is hidden. I may or may not get that revelation we need to make the prayers a resounding success.


I know it’s not everyone that has given out some incomplete info. Many of you have been quite truthful and we are praying valid prayers that must work. But a number of you have concealed things (either because they are ashamed, or think that it is not safe to share, or undecided). For those who are concerned, I believe God wants you to read this from me.


I had some painful instances of this recently. So, I feel I need to let everyone know. Many times I had to deal with wrong names, women (lying to me about their marital status), people loaded with stuff from the past we need to get rid of. Some struggling with secret habits, or burdens, while some on our prayers, still patronize spell-casters, wizards or strange ‘prophets’ and they keep charms, amulets, rings and other items from the demonic agents.


I do not condemn anyone in any of these. Perhaps you do not know the consequence of these. This is a wake-up call to those who are concerned. The enemy of your marriage ought to be taken out of your situation. So, it is your responsibility to dismiss this enemy and break any connection to them.


Another responsibility is to pray your approved prayers with me every day. This is obvious. If you do not know how to pray or you have some other challenges, you let me know. I will be releasing a powerful eBook on How To Pray The Approved Prayers For Your Husband’s Change. A lot of wrong praying is going on. The eBook will answer many of the questions and show how to pray and receive your desires. The eBook will be out in the next two weeks and it will be purchased. I will announce the formal release through this Newsletter.


Your other responsibility is to request for review of the approved prayers when it is due. Our prayers could be for 7, 14, 21 days. When the days are up (or close by), request for review. To review approved prayers, you will suggest five prayers points (the numbers only) you desire to see happen in your marriage from the prayer eBook (Deliverance Prayers That Win Back The Cheating Husband). I will check them and approve new prayers for you and me.


As you pray, listen to God from your spirit. Whatever He tells you to do, do it.


Finally, if you consider it ok, you may send us your offering or seed. Your seed is the evidence of faith in the power of prayers through our Ministry. Your offering is an effective way to plug into the anointing in this Ministry. In other words, you agree ( and are part) of what we do here.


Now let us see another side of you.

Is Your Heart Prepared For God's Answer?

If I asked you why the prayers have not fully changed your husband, or restored your marriage, what will be your answer?

I have been reading some opinions, from some of you, why your prayers are not fully answered yet. Here are some of the prominent ones I got.

  • The devil is so strong that he resists our prayers.

  • My husband has made up his mind against our marriage. The prayers can’t change his will.

  • These prayers may not be strong or sufficient to change my situation.

  • My husband is not a Christian, so the prayers won’t affect him.

  • His family or the strange woman has so bewitched him that he can’t see reason or have a change of mind.

  • He is under a generational curse or spell that can’t be broken.

  • He has already gotten a divorce from me so our marriage is beyond recovery.

  • His love for me is dead, so our prayers are like whipping a dead horse.

  • He is under the influence of very evil people, a group of friends and associates. He seems not in control of his words or actions.

…And many more!

These are real issues but they are not the whole picture. Prayers are superior to these circumstances.

The same prayers have performed wonderfully well for other women. Believe me, some of those women have more hopeless and scandalous cases than your own. So, we are after those other things in the mix that have hardened your case.

You see, all those reasons (why your prayers are resisted) are outside you. In some way, you may have a hand resisting your own prayers without knowing?

I am not insinuating that you are the cause of your own frustration. Nevertheless, the Spirit of God often brings issues like this to me so that someone will see the light and take what is hers without further delay.

So pay close attention to what I will be saying here.


My perception is that you are not completely free from what’s going on now in your marriage.




I am NOT going to talk about doubt, unbelief or faithlessness here.


I am not even going to talk about sin.


Well, not the way we normally see it. Though this is a type of sin… against yourself.


We are dealing with offenses, malice, unforgiveness, bitterness…


They are one and the same irrespective of the language you use to describe them.


They are very deadly poison to prayers and blocker to your answers.


I hope you know what they are. It presents as that heavy feeling of pain and anger against someone (in this case your husband). You have been wronged, betrayed, unfairly treated so the emotion is hanging in there waiting for justice, apology, confession and change.


You would not let go the emotion of his actions and words until you have been appeased. You may even want him to suffer… pay for his sins… be hurt too. You don’t think he deserves to be forgiven until he confesses and begs you. I also think he should return to you with remorse.


He will return. You will tell the story of 'how you overcame'. In the meantime, you are the one hurting. We need to push our prayers to quick success and stop the pain.


That’s why you should do something about this fast… NOW! This could be the remedy you need to get to the restoration you’ve waited for.



That emotion of offenses is also spiritual… it’s a demonic oppression. It serves the wishes of your enemies while making you miserable. That’s why we need to exit it from your spirit. Yes, you can no longer accommodate wicked forces.


The first step is already taken. We have identified the enemy spirit, and have agreed to get rid of it.


Now, you confess before God that you desire this spirit to leave but you can’t do it on your own. Therefore you ask for grace to empower you.


Declare that you have forgiven your husband of any offense to you and your marriage. You plead the Blood of Jesus to wipe off any lingering grudge or bitterness in you. So, by the Word of God, command that spirit of offense to leave your mind and never return.


It is done…


What is done is that you have removed the road block to your restored marriage. We would continue the prayers knowing there's now a thoroughfare.


Remember Confession brings possession. Keep your confessions positive and plead the Blood of Jesus for the cleansing of your thoughts and emotion.


I am always available to make things easier for you. If you have questions or comments, reach out to me.


Remember this from Mark 11:23-24:

"…whosoever shall say to this mountain, Be removed, and be cast into the sea; and shall not doubt in his heart, but shall believe that those things which he says shall come to pass; he shall have whatsoever he says. Therefore I say to you, What things you desire, when you pray, believe that you receive them, and you shall have them."




You shall succeed!




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