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May 12, 2016

How To Obey God And Win Back Your Cheating Husband.

“...God resists the proud but gives more grace to the humble.”
(James 4: 6).


Hi, it’s always a pleasure to share insights in the Spirit of prayer towards the desired change of your husband and full restoration of your marriage.

     Before we start, I wish to honor our great God for His great answers to many of our prayers for you this last April.     Some really confusing and desperate situations were miraculously smoothed, and quite a number of families are back together again, happily. Even a divorce proceeding that reached the final hearing was withdrawn by the husband himself, to reconcile with his praying wife!


Please help me scream:

    Praise the Lord!


Some of you are good christian wives, praying and faithful, but, regrettably, insensitive (or reluctant) to the first requirements of your own prayers. So it is not so much about your prayer life or faith, but in resistance to personal changes in answer to prayers. This is usually the first answer to prayers you receive, but when denied, it works against performance of the rest of the prayers.

By the time we are done here, you should know if there's need for you to adjust.


We shall get to it soon.


Once you check within you and get rid of this very attitude (if it’s there), believe me it is very simple to do, the rest of the answers become easy.

The 4 Situations Of Prayer On Your Journey To Fulfillment

...God is faithful, but will with the temptation also make a way to escape...
(1 Corinthians 10: 13)


1. Quick, Huge, Positive Changes In Your Cheating Husband.


This is the natural desire or expectation of every wife who comes over to Help Me In Prayer! for the first time.


People want to see immediate changes in their marriage situation as soon as possible irrespective of how long their husband had been cheating on them. Cheating husbands are at different levels, therefore complete turnaround could mean:


•coming back home,


•confession and remorse,


•more honest and loving communication,


•regular intimacy,


•complete openness and involvement of the wife in his affairs... and so on.


We all look forward, and celebrate, the quick change when it happens. The fact, from my experience, is that these fantastic changes are rather few and in between.


The major issue with this change is that it does not seem to last. Why? Sufficient spiritual authority was not generated to keep the unclean spirit influence away. (Matthew 12: 43 - 45)


2. Little By Little Changes In Your Husband Over A Period.


By far, this is the commonest experience in praying for the cheating husband. I would like to add that it is also the real building block of a permanent positive change. Yes, this is where you notice your husband changing slowly somehow but not enough to be trusted or make you comfortable.


If you were to arrange this change, you would get him to change differently... faster! But you need patience to allow God complete His work in him, even as you continue to pray.

For example:


• he could be staying home more,


• going to church,


• be a lot more intimate,


• stopped pressing for divorce


However, he’s still keeping his phone away, or doing some other curious things that give him away on the other woman. He may be lying about a whole lot of things too.


Perhaps you’ve been through something like 'managed change' with him before and it turned out a disappointment and heartbreak later. You don't want to be deceived again. Oh! How you wish the changes could be much quicker. You are eager to get him do more but he’s not shifting. You start to get desperate…then frustrated. You even fear he may even fall back to previous level. Sometimes, you feel the prayer and the counsel are not working!


My word for you at this level is this: if this 'little' change is as a result of our prayers, then the hardest job out of the hold of immorality is done. By that initial change, you have received a validation of the Hand of God to help your marriage. The rest of his change could happen in one more leap, though it may still take a while, but it is bound to happen.


Did I just say it is bound to happen? That statement was misunderstood by a few women in the past, and they relaxed, expecting a fulfillment which didn’t come for soooo long. So, I will rephrase it. It is bound to happen if you keep at the prayers that brought the changes. But I would advise praying a little more of the prayers for a quicker arrival. Do you understand it now?


3. No Positive Change In Your Husband…He’s Even Worse.


This is another level we sometimes observe when we pray for the cheating and lying husband.


• He still doesn’t make any contact,


• has requested or filed for divorce,


• tells you he doesn’t love you but the strange woman,


• would not sleep on the same bed, or touch you,


• would not pay bills or provide for you and the children,


• is seen around with this strange woman,


• shamelessly posting and showing their faces on the social media.


Yes, you don’t know how this would end – you expect God to show up for you but you fear that the devil (through the strange woman) is holding your husband too tight. Friends and even Church people are asking you to ‘give it up’ and ‘move on with your life.’


May I tell you this? The only person worth hearing in this matter is God Himself. What does He say? Permit me to say this: all other contrary suggestions are traps.


There are three explanations why things don’t change, or even seem to get worse, when we pray. If you are really praying (following the points according to instructions), then


• things are changing but have not yet manifested in the physical.


• The second answer may be that the prayers are not appropriate for the situation we are praying for. Back to the question: do we have enough truthful information to obtain correct prayer points?


The third reason, which is also the 4th situation in prayer fulfillment, is that things are really changing, and changing big, but you don’t see them because you are not looking in that direction. There is what you need to see before you get the rest. This is what I will help you see here; it is the most critical link for your desires to happen for your husband and marriage.


What you don't see, notice or accept may be the barrier on your way to prayer success. This is the peak of today's discussion but we don't have room to complete it now.


This important discussion will be continued in the next edition.


You shall succeed.



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May I have Your Attention, Please?

We are reviewing our highly inspired Prayer eBook, 'Deliverance Prayers That Win Back The Cheating Husband'


The major contents and the prayers would be retained (except someone shows strong reason to change any of them). However, we shall correct some grammatical and formatting errors, and perhaps, sprinkle the pages with some images. The eBook cover and title may also change.


So, if you observe anything in your copy that should be changed, please send me details so that we can identify and make it good.      

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Due to the review of Membership of Help Me In Prayer! some names have been dropped. Please, keep your membership alive by communicating your prayer updates regularly.


Oh, God! Save My Children From Their Father's Blood

Our upcoming eBook, 'Oh, God! Save My Children From Their Father's Blood' is delayed because I have not obtained the release instructions yet. I'm still praying on it. I believe I will pray through soon; and you'll be able to order your copy.


It's a deliverance book for every parent, to release their child from generational curse of adultery, immorality, cheating, divorce, drugs and crime from their lineage. Many of you already had good reports from some of those prayers I sent you. You will need that eBook if your husband, or the father of your child, is challenged by immorality, divorce, drugs or criminal behavior.


So, expect the knowledge and prayers that could give your generations rest on every side.


You are blessed

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