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November 11, 2015

When The Cheating Husband Is Not Willing To Leave The Strange Woman.

Hi, friend. Greetings in the Name of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, whose rule and dominion shall never end (Luke 1:33).


I want you to get this one truth sorted out in your heart...and head too. It will certainly speed up your prayer answers concerning your husband and marriage, if you and I are on the same page in our mind-set.


And this is it. If you are praying the prayers I sent to you, which are the same I’m praying for you, then you can’t fail. The length of time we’ve prayed, or he’s gone with the strange woman, notwithstanding.


Let me explain a bit. If I ever sent you prayers, then I believe you’ll have your husband faithfully and lovingly back. Now, my assurance is based on the result of my initial intercession when you came over to ‘Help Me In Prayer!’ Every prayer I ever sent, or approved, is prayed-through in an hour-long, spirit-connected intercession.


If I can’t pray through for you, I’ll most certainly decline further prayers until I clear whatever is in the way.


So, if we (you and I) are already praying, it means your victory is within the reach of prayers!




Yes, unless you have kept certain key personal information away, or lied about something to me. Then the prayer would have failed before it started. Sometimes my spirit may pick up these omissions (or are they cover-ups?) but not always. If you hide your shortcomings or sins (which should be confessed and repented of to clear our prayer path) then you have sabotaged the whole prayer effort.

“And having in a readiness to revenge all disobedience, when your obedience is fulfilled”.- 2Cor 10:6

Why I'm Confident You Will Have Your Husband Back…Sound And Loving.

This is the season of miracle answers to our prayers. If you are following our counsel, you should expect your testimony as soon as today!


Why am I so positive?


First, the ever-powerful word of God is so clear and direct on what happens to our type of prayers. Check out these assurances: Isaiah 30:19; Jeremiah33:3; 1 John 5:14-15; Matthew 7:11; Matthew 18:19; John 14:14 to mention just a few.


More so, I have seen husbands change as if I was in a dream! Infact, they change so suddenly that their wives doubted the sincerity. These were hopelessly cheating husbands miraculously turned around (example, I received 27 testimonies in the first eight days of this month alone!). I would never give up on prayer because no force is as powerful to change peoples, situations and seasons. The word of God applied in targeted prayer can recover any husband, no matter how far gone in immorality with the strange woman or women.

The Unclean Spirits Cannot Continue To Have Their Way With Your Husband.

A Malaysian friend shared an article she saw in the net with me. Someone had written that there was nothing a wife could do to change her cheating husband, if he doesn’t want to change. He therefore stated that the cheating husband be left alone until he decides to stop!


Nothing could be farther from the truth. Targeted prayers can stop immorality, cheating or divorce against you and your marriage covenant. That's what God has validated frequently through our ministry.


In the spirit, everyone is controlled or influenced by evil or righteous forces. For example, I'm one hundred percent controlled by the Holy Spirit because I submit to Him. If I refuse His influence, then the devil (God forbid!) takes over. There’s no sitting on the fence! At the onset of a marriage, the husband usually determines to love his wife always and make his marriage work. But along the journey, some other spirit moves into him and controls (no, seizes) his will, diverting, manipulating and converting him. During this time, the man may still seem to be in charge of this treacherous habit, but he isn't.


This spirit influence may either be a generational thing (monitoring him and waiting for an opportunity to manifest) or a subtle, but over-powering, entrance of the unclean spirit at some point. This is why we engage the Word and Spirit of God, to dislodge the unclean spirits. Everyone, whose husband has been defiled, distracted or locked-in, can take him back in prayer, whether or not the cheating husband has been hijacked by the strange woman.

"The king's heart is in the hand of the LORD, as the rivers of water: he turneth it whither soever he will". – Proverbs 21:1.

Unleasing Power Prayer Shots For Maximum Impact.

The Word Of God In Prayer Frees Your Husband From The Spirit Of The Strange Woman.

The spirit of lust and cheating actually takes over the reasoning and tastes of the husband and makes him preferring other women. It has nothing to do with beauty, youth or any physical attribute of the strange woman. If you, by force of prayer or persuasion, stop his affair with one strange woman, ignoring the spirit of lust in your husband, you'll find out that he soon connects with another . That’s why we target the seed sponsor (the unclean spirits) by the authority of praying God’s word, force them out and recover your husband permanently.


In most instances, before Jesus commanded evil spirits out of people, the victims were not willing to be delivered. But Jesus delivered them because it was the right thing to do.

“And in the synagogue there was a man, which had a spirit of an unclean devil, and cried out with a loud voice, Saying, Let us alone; what have we to do with thee, thou Jesus of Nazareth? art thou come to destroy us? I know thee who thou art; the Holy One of God. And Jesus rebuked him, saying, Hold thy peace, and come out of him. And when the devil had thrown him in the midst, he came out of him, and hurt him not”- Luke 4: 33-35.


See also Matthew 8:28-29 and Mark 5:1-15.


Would you say that those demon-possessed fellows spoke to Jesus in their right minds? Certainly not! The devils inside spoke as if it were the man’s will to remain in that state.


Recall also in Luke 19:30-35 / Mark 11:2-6 how Jesus gave the word to His disciples for the owner of the colt. When they said what they were told, the owners let them untie the colt and go with it.


I see a cheating husband as captive of the enemy (like a prisoner of war!) but I have a close relationship and connection of a strong ally in the person of the Holy Spirit. I believe you have the same privilege too. What do you do with this available, all-conquering help? That’s why it’s called prayer warfare!


I’m with you in this war…you could call me your co-warrior. The troops of God are with us taking our orders – to retreat, advance, surrender or recover what’s taken from us. Which order are you giving continually?


The war may be short, long, exciting, bitter or somewhat of a ding-dong, for a while, but victory is sure, if you stick to the right thing. Would you?

Let's Continue This On Our FaceBook Page.

I invite you to like Praying For My Husband. We do share some other deep thoughts on how to pray for your husband there.

More Help For You From Our Website.

I have some articles on the website which I perceive may interest you also:


1. Ensure you pray acceptably to get answers Read the article here


2. The signs that would show that he's coming around as a result of your prayers Read the article here


3. The prayers you shouldn't pray for your cheating husband Read the article here


4. Would you like to know if your prayer points will succeed in changing your husband? ">Read the article here

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We are expanding our operations to attend and serve you promptly and powerfully, and to treat the influx of prayer requests (and spiritual guidance) pouring into our office. We, therefore, have need for a couple of laptop and desktop computers, data processing machines and some office fittings.


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You shall succeed.



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