My Husband Is An Affair With An Older Woman Out Of Pity.

by Cat
(Hong Kong)

We have dated for 12 years before we got married early last year. Within less than a year's time he has an affair with a woman from our church who is eight years older than him. They have been together for about six months.

I have to say this woman is definitely not an attractive or sexy lady, I can tell he was playing around, but it got to the stage where he wants to leave her but feels sorry for her, so in another word, he is not willing to let go or I should say he doesn't know how to let go.

I think that he knows he has done something very wrong, but he cannot face it and of course he hasn't repented. I pray everyday for him to turn back. I really hope he can cut off this woman asap so that they can both return to Him.

I admit that I have lots of anger and hatred in me, but I am still willing to see him return one day.

I don't know what sort of directions I should continue to pray. Once we get in touch, the sweetness can only last for a week or so and then it will turn sour again. He is now living at his parent's house, we haven't been living together for about three months already.