My Husband Of 22 Years Wants Divorce.

by Nolita
(Covington, GA USA)

My husband and I have been married for 22 years. He was in an adulterous affair with a woman who recently had his child. He treated me like I was dirt. He rejected me and now even though I have tried to stand for our marriage, he wants a divorce.

He plays with my feelings and emotions. I cry out to God to help me. I try to pray for his salvation but it is a struggle. I am born again and the pain is great. I have sought counselling but it was for me to help me.

My parents divorced after 35 years and I have tried to fight for my marriage. My friends told me to let it go that there are better men out there. I am at the place where he wants a divorce and I am tired of my heart being stomped on and the humiliation is great. I moved out of the house four years ago into an apartment with two of the kids. The third was in college.

He says that he was forced to marry me and I told him no he was not. He wants out and I don't have any more strength. I try not to hate him and I try to continue to pray but I need God to heal me completely. I need to be able to say good bye if that is what he wants and in the will of God. Please pray for me.